Laura & Jan

Decorative laurel wreath

Groom & Bride

Our Story

We grew up in the UK and Germany, each exploring our home countries — and somehow, we found a new adventure in each other. Over time, our connection turned into plans, and plans into a home and choosing a life together.We feel very lucky to share this moment with you as we begin the next chapter as husband and wife — Mann und Frau.

Laura - The Bride

Laura Jane

Jan - The Groom

Jan Helge

This wedding is more than a day. It’s a moment to honour where we come from, celebrate who we are becoming, and begin married life surrounded by the families and friends who guided us along the way. We are proud of the life we’re building — and even more grateful to celebrate it with all of you.

We can’t wait to raise a glass, share a hug, and fill the dance floor.

Wedding Events

Wedding Party

We couldn't imagine a better place to celebrate with you than Schloss Herten — a beautiful moated castle surrounded by water, trees, and just the right amount of fairytale atmosphere. Hidden in a peaceful park in Herten, this historic castle offers elegant rooms, lovely gardens, and plenty of space for hugs, laughter, dancing, and raising a glass (or two). We're so excited to share this special place with you and can't wait to celebrate together in such a magical setting.

Schloss Herten - Wedding Venue

Dresscode - Castle Chic

Dress Code – Expanded Guidance: Castle Chic — Elegant, formal attire inspired by a historic castle setting. Choose an outfit that feels refined and timeless, perfect for the romantic atmosphere of stone halls, candlelight, and classic architecture. Colour inspiration includes jewel tones, warm neutrals, soft pastels, muted florals, or classic black—think Downton Abbey elegance meets a European Schloss.

Castle Chic Dress Code Examples

Sunday Morning Breakfast (Optional)

  • Near Schloss Herten, Herten NRW, Germany

Join us for a relaxed English-style breakfast with coffee on Sunday morning. It will be a cozy and informal way to wind down the weekend together. Perfect for one last chat before we say our goodbyes.

English-style breakfast spread

Travel & Accommodation

Location

Our wedding celebration takes place at the beautiful Schloss Herten, a historic water castle set in a scenic park in Herten, North Rhine-Westphalia, located in the northern part of the Ruhrgebiet. For convenient parking, a large, well-lit and video-monitored public lot is available at the nearby LWL-Klinik, just a short 4–5 minute walk from the castle entrance.

The castle is located in the industrial heart of Germany, offering a wide range of nearby hotels and holiday apartments, many of which can be booked easily via Booking.com or Airbnb.

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